Oh wow, where do I begin. Daddy made you two breakfast, eggs and toast. Afterwards, Mommy got you both dressed and took a shower. We were then off to Aunt Dianna's house, or "Aunt Dina or Aunt Diane," as you both call her. Today was little Nora's 3rd birthday, and though we'll be attending her party this Saturday, her Mommy wanted to do something special for her today, her actual birthday :) So, we walked down to help celebrate, we had lunch, played, and then took a walk. Happy Happy Birthday Precious Baby Girl! :) You two were in heaven...playmates to run around with, tons of food and sweets, and some outside time :)
After we got all you little monkey's rounded up, we went for a walk. You two were doing well and expressed not wanting to take a nap, but your moods were saying something else ha/ha Anyway, we cut through a yard and went into our backyard. After everyone found all the Ms. Allie and Mr. Arlo poop, you all played in the backyard. Dianna had to run an errand so I suggested that she leave her babes behind to make it easier. Wellllllll, one thing lead to another, and well, you all were covered in mud. It has rained so much, including today, and you two had a muddy blast! Mommy felt so horrible and dreaded Dianna returning to three of her four children mud covered, but of course, she didn't care. She walked her babes home. Jude, you went inside with Daddy prior to Dianna returning. You were past tired. Daddy tried rocking you but you wouldn't quit yelling for "Mommy!" Mommy stripped off my clothes, and Bodhi's clothes and jumped into bed with you. You instantly fell asleep. Bodhi, you never did fall asleep. Dianna's Dad, who I thought was Daddy locked out of the house, rang the front door bell, and Mommy had to hid behind the door because I didn't have any pants on ha/ha Then I realized, "oh yeah, Jude has a hair appointment." Mommy tried waking you, Buddha, oh boy, you were not having it. I managed to get you and your sister dressed. Daddy had went and picked up dinner for us before returning to work. We headed to Aunt Lacey Rudolph's :)
Aunt Lacey was so excited to see you both. She talked about how super cute you both were :) After some bribes of candy you got the most adorable little man cut :) Aunt Lacey had to go get her little munchkins so we didn't stay and visit. We headed straight to the grocery. Mommy is trying to stock our cabinets and deep freezer to get us over this ridiculous grocery hump. Groceries take a huge chunk out of our monthly budget, especially with two extra hounds and kitties! Two hours later, $260.00 dollars spent, we headed home with a cart full! Mommy still had items on our list to get, but we didn't have room in our cart and you two were starving for dinner, so we headed home. When Daddy arrived home from work, he went back out and got the remaining items, $140.00 more dollars. The sad thing about it, it wasn't much groceries really, UGGGGH! While at the grocery store, Bodhi, you had your first "moment" at the store, that "moment" when you embarrassed your Momma beyond comprehension!!! Now in hindsight, I know where you were coming from, but at the time I had no clue and was mortified...MORTIFIED!
So, here's the back story...When Mommy was your age and older, I always told Grandmoo that I wanted a black baby brother. I begged every birthday and every holiday for Grandmoo to give me a black baby brother ha/ha Recently, well, a couple of months back, Mommy and Daddy were talking about having another baby and/or adopting. You two were of course some what included in the conversation but I didn't think you guys were really paying all that close of attention ha! Daddy said he wanted to adopt a little Asian baby, and Mommy told Daddy the story of how when I was little I always wanted a black baby brother and that we should adopt a black baby. Secondly, you and your brother LOVE babies, but Bodhi, since Mommy strapped Rowan on the front of me, you have been beside yourself with jealousy. You even told Mommy before going to Aunt Dianna's, "Mommy, is that where baby Rowan is?" Yes, Bodhi, Baby Rowan is Aunt Dianna's baby daughter. "Well Mommy, if you strap that baby to the front of you again, I'm going to be mad!" BAHAHAHAHA! Thirdly, Mommy has been experimenting or testing your observation skills, they say race is learned and that children don't notice skin color differences. Mommy asked you the other day while watching tv..."Bodhi, do those two people look different to you?" Mommy was asking you to observe the differences between a white guy and a black guy. You responded, "No Mommy, they are both boys." Wow! Race is really learned...well, so I thought!...
So we are in the store going down the isles when you both laid eyes on a Momma and her baby. Both of you started saying, "look Mommy, look at that little baby, awwwww!" We smiled and you Bodhi, appeared to be trying to get a reaction from the little baby boy. As we passed by you said, "Mommy, I don't like black babies!" OH SHIT! WTH?!?! Mommy was shocked, stunned...mortified! I mistakenly said, "What?" And you of course repeated louder, "I DON'T LIKE BLACK BABIES!" OMG! These words coming from my sweet sweet baby girl, this goes against everything Mommy and Daddy stand for, everything we are trying to instill in the two of you! Mommy didn't know what to say, so Mommy just told you that that was a very hurtful thing to say, and that you hurt people's hearts when you say you don't like them. I was honestly at a lost for words!
So Mommy was telling Daddy about this embarrassing moment at the store, and he reminded Mommy that you had heard Mommy say that I wanted to adopt a black baby boy (which the baby was a black baby boy) combined with your recent jealousy, plus, the baby didn't react to you, this was you simply retaliating against Momma. However, I'm still stunned that just out of the blue noticed skin color differences, where did that come from?
Anyway, Mommy put the groceries away, warmed dinner, and then Daddy helped get you two ready for bed. You both were past exhausted. We had a super busy day, and a wonderful afternoon with the Rudd clan :)
Sweet Dreams my sweet sweet babes!
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Cheese! |
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Rudd Family :) |
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Bodhi making mud pies :) |
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Sleepy Buddha :) |
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Aunt Lacey working her magic :) |